Dear Ask A Dude, A well-educated and intelligent American man I know has recently extolled the (supposed) benefits of polygamy for the intact family. His supposition is that most men are inherently polygamous and most women monogamous. He believes that if women could accept that their man was going to bring home other women "for keeps" but would still continue to love them and ...

Hi, I am having an affair with a married guy, he is married for 2 years now and he has two kids with her. Now most times people say "he will never leave his wife for you” but in my case, it is so. He wants to divorce his wife and start a new life with me. I should be happy but I am not, ...

Dear AAD, I've been having an affair with a married man for the past five years. It started at work so it is pretty easy to see each other or get away on business trips. We're madly in love but he won't leave his wife quite yet because he doesn't want his daughter to have a broken home, or the financial loss of a messy ...

Dear Dude, Help! I've been seeing this guy for a couple months. Things are great when we're together but when we're apart I get the feeling he doesn't want to have as much to do with me as I do with him. Last week, he said he'd call me on Thursday and I didn't hear from him until the next Monday! He said he lost his ...