Sex + Dating
Should I settle?
Dear Chick, I always seem to find some flaw in the women I date — not good looking enough, likes me too much, too boring or whatever. Inevitably, I break up with them... or end up being distant enough that they break up with me. I'm starting to get concerned that maybe my expectations are too high and that I should lower them. But many ...
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What does she want?
Dear AAC, OK here's the deal: I've known this girl for about 5 years now and she is one of my best friends. The problem is I keep getting told by her mom and friends that she wants to be with me but all she ever says to me is she just wants to be friends. But every time I start dating a girl she ...
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Should I be loyal to my friends or my girlfriend?
Dear Chick, My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year. When we started dating, everything was perfect. She met my friends and my family and they all loved her. But over the past few months, that 'newlywed' feeling faded away, and now we argue pretty regularly. It's not a great situation but I love her and I want to be with her. ...
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Men, women and polygamy
Dear Ask A Dude, A well-educated and intelligent American man I know has recently extolled the (supposed) benefits of polygamy for the intact family. His supposition is that most men are inherently polygamous and most women monogamous. He believes that if women could accept that their man was going to bring home other women "for keeps" but would still continue to love them and ...
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No need to rush the sex
Dear AAC, I've been out with a girl, like, five times and we haven't slept together yet. I mean, we've slept together but we haven't, you know, slept together. Is this normal?
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